Looking For Your Soul Mate? Try The Law of Attraction-Part Two

By : LaVera J. Gaston
If you read Part One of this article you know that the Law of Attraction is one of the most powerful laws of the Universe. Our thoughts are energy and like a magnet, we attract and are attracted to people who are a perfect match for what we are thinking and "feeling" on a conscious or unconscious level.

If you are attracting the same kind of person that you don't want, you are likely focusing your thoughts and energy on what you don't want, rather than on what you do want. Much of this is done unconsciously. You don't even know it's happening. If you repeatedly attract the wrong person that is your clue that you need to change your thoughts.

So, how do you change your mental programming and begin attracting your right and perfect partner? Here are the basic steps:

Have A Written Goal

"¢ Set the goal or intention. Write it down.

"¢ Write down the characteristics of your ideal partner (Age, education, economic level, height, hobbies, everything you want).

"¢ Read your list every day. Your mind must have repetition in order to change the neural connections.

"¢ Believe you can have it and that you deserve it.

Visualize Yourself With Your New Partner

"¢ Your mind thinks in pictures so make a mental movie.

"¢ Be sure to put yourself in the movie.

"¢ Think of what it feels like to be with your partner.

"¢ See yourself holding hands, cuddling, making love, doing things that you enjoy.

"¢ Do your visualization every morning and evening when your mind is most receptive.

Create A Vision Board

"¢ Find photo images of happy couples that seem to have the kind of relationship you want.

"¢ Include photos of the house you want to live in and doing things you want to do together.

"¢ Place your vision board where you can see it every day.

"¢ You can spice it up even more by using Feng Shui on your vision board. Put your photos in your relationship corner, which is the upper right corner of your board.

Create Powerful Affirmations

"¢ Make sure your affirmations are positive.

"¢ State your affirmations in the present tense.

"¢ Repeat your affirmations several times a day, especially in the morning and evening

"¢ Repeat your affirmations when you catch yourself thinking negatively about your relationship situation.

Ignite Your Passion

"¢ It is your feelings that attract things to you faster.

"¢ Feel it as you say your affirmations & do your visualization.

"¢ How does it feel to be with your partner?

BE The Right Partner

"¢ What specific qualities do you want your new partner to see in you? Make a list.

"¢ What do you need to change about yourself to prepare for your new partner?

"¢ What can you do to love yourself more?

"¢ What can you do to love your partner more?

"¢ Practice being the kind of person you want to become.

Take Action

"¢ What are your passions? Start doing things now that you are passionate about

"¢ Where can you meet people who share your passions?

"¢ Keep a gratitude journal. You get more of the things in which you are grateful.

"¢ Be grateful for all of the relationships you have right now.

"¢ Put yourself in places where you can meet new people.

"¢ Expect that you will meet the right person. Erase all doubts.

An important part of this process is you believing that you deserve the kind of person you want to attract. Some people have issues with self-worth. Maintaining a deeply held belief that you don't deserve a certain type of person will prevent you from attracting it regardless of how great you look, or any other physical attribute you might have.

The next time you're looking to attract your right and perfect partner, take a look inside your mind. That is exactly where you will find it.

Aim High!

Copyright (c) 2007 LaVera J. Gaston

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LaVera Gaston is a Success Coach and Law of Attraction expert providing coaching and training to entrepreneurs, professionals, and small business owners. She is a former senior executive and helps her clients develop the right mindset, goals, and strategies to grow their businesses. She is founder of MindSync Solutions and can be reached at 916-419-3998. You can visit her website at www.laveragaston.com

Law of Attraction Accelerator - Grab a Piece of the Blue Yonder

By : Aldian Prakoso
Bob Proctor, the famous author of Science of Getting Rich is fond of saying, "Most people are not going after what they want. Even some of the most serious goal seekers and goal setters, are going after what they think they can get."

Now, this is a very profound thought. Human beings like us perceive things at different levels. Most of us take a cue from what we can see visually. We read that so and so has become rich by working hard and we think, The Secret lies in working hard. Some book says one should buy shares to become rich. We go and buy shares and burn our fingers and feel bitter about it for the rest of our lives. What I want to tell these people is that if you do the same things again and again, you get the same results, again and again.

In Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill said, "An educated person is not necessarily a person with an abundance of general or specialized knowledge. An educated person is a person who has so developed the faculties of their mind, that they can develop anything or acquires anything that they want, or it's equivalent, without violating the rights of others." What we want to do is start to understand these faculties. Perception, the will, reason, imagination, intuition and memory. These are higher faculties. So, through imagination we want to build a picture of what we want.

Now, when you build a picture, make it really big. Nothing like you has ever seen before. Let your imagination fly. And leave the baggage of your past behind and focus on the future. What will happen if you only look in the rear view mirror when you drive? I am sure you would crash in no time. But we keep looking into the rear view mirror while driving through our lives! No doubt we crash out fast and furious.

Forget the past. Put it behind you. Create a truly big picture of your future life. Don't hold yourself back. Use all your higher faculties. Imagination, intuition. Give them a free play. Give your thoughts a free rein. And then watch the fun.

In the Science of Getting Rich one of the most powerful concepts is the Law of Attraction Accelerator. What exactly is this? Looks complicated and difficult isn't it? You can't be further from the truth. It is actually a very simple principle. What do you do when you speed up on the road? Do you look here and there at the scenery? A normal person would concentrate on the road ahead. Now, using this analogy what would you do if you want to speed up on your way to wealth and success. FOCUS. Yes, that is exactly what I would do.

Once you have made up your mind and have the big picture in your mind, go for it. Don't hesitate. Don't look around. Go right ahead with the gas pedal hitting the floor.

It looks so simple. Yet most of us flounder on the way. As soon as we see the first bump on the road, we lose heart and change direction. And when we meander all over the place, we wonder how we got there in the first place.

The Law of Attraction is universal. If you have positive thoughts they would get absorbed by the universe and rebound back manifold. The same goes for negative thoughts. Remember, the universe is neutral. Like a mirror. If you send out negative signals, you will see negativity reflected around you. So you have to be careful. Always think positively. The more you think positively, more positive things will happen to you. And it will all add up.

And focus is all important. Imagine your mind to be a lens. When you hold the lens against the light, what happens? It collects all the dispersed light and points it at one specific point. And then it burns the patch you are holding the lens on. Don't you think the same is happening to your thoughts? Indeed it is. The more focused you are, more likely you will set a scorching pace towards success. Get rid of negativity. It disperses your energy. Get hold of positive thoughts by the scruff of the neck and keep twisting till the essence is realized.

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Aldian Prakoso is an OptiMINDzation Performance Coach and the owner of OptiMINDzation Attraction Accelerator Blog. OptiMINDzation Attraction Accelerator Blog helps you to achieve success, wealth, growth and health by helping you to visualize your goals and dreams vividly. You can instantly download a popular free report "OptiMINDzation Attraction Accelerator", available at ==> www.AudioGettingRichScience.com

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