Wednesday, November 5, 2008

How To Improve Your Relationships With The Law Of Attraction

This is a really important topic for me since I have been blessed to have found my soul mate over 20 years ago. I met my wife Sally when she was 16 and I was 18 and we have been together since and celebrate 17 years of marriage this November. As anyone will tell you that has been in a long term relationship it will have its up and downs, but with work it can be the most rewarding experience of your life. Well it has been for me.
We all want great relationships in our life. Everyone wants a sizzling romance, great friends and a close family. However, relationships can be hard sometimes. Relationships can be challenging. Sometimes it seems like you do everything possible in a relationship, only to have it fail. It can be so frustrating watching how some people seem to have it “easy” with relationships — while your own relationships are so much harder.
The people that have “easy” relationships are most likely using the law of attraction. Some of them may not even call it this, but they are probably using many of the principles of this law. the law of attraction can very easily improve your relationships.
Now there are some things that the law of attraction simply will not do for your relationships. It will not “make” someone have a relationship with you if they don’t want to. the law of attraction is not like some sort of love spell that you can use to magically attract anyone that you desire. The Law of Attraction will easily and effortlessly attract and improve the relationships you are meant to have.
There is an important word to keep in mind when it comes to the law of attraction and relationships: trust. Trusting that you are having the right relationships. Trusting that the right relationships will come to you. Trusting that your relationships will work out. If you have a challenging situation with a relationship and you turn to the Law of Attraction, it is key to add a little trust. Just as with your relationships trust is essential, in using the Law of Attraction trust is also essential.
One of the easiest ways to improve your relationships with people is to remember that “like attracts like.” So what you are sending out into the relationship is coming back to you. That makes any relationship you have like a mirror, sending its reflection to face you. Do you like what you are seeing? If you don’t, then maybe it is time to fix this relationship! Spend some quiet time in reflection thinking of how you could fix this relationship. Think about what you would like this person to give you — and it is funny because that may be exactly what the other person is hoping you will give them! Remember that relationships are mirrors and that what we see is often our own reflection in someone else.
Every relationship you have right now is teaching you something. This is especially important with those frustrating and “hard” relationships. Put yourself in a quiet place and think to yourself “what have you come to teach me?” Perhaps they have taught you about patience by being impatient or about acceptance by being critical. Thank them for this lesson. Often as you learn this lesson, your relationship may change, soften or even let go in some way. The emotions in your relationship will change as you have discovered you have learned the lessons.
A great way to improve your relationships using the Law of Attraction is to express gratitude. This is for every kind of relationship: romantic, friendship, personal, professional and any other type of relationship. Simply saying “thank you” for this person doing something can often mean a lot. How many times have you done something for someone and they haven’t bothered to thank you? Be the first one to express gratitude, and go the extra mile and express gratitude for this person in some unique way. Give flowers or baked goods, something personal and just for them. Often you don’t have to spend a lot of money to say “thank you for being you” — you just have to do something that will touch someone’s heart.
The Law of Attraction can always improve your relationships. Make your relationships easier with the Law of Attraction!
By: John D Edwards
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John Edwards is a published author in the field of personal development. He will show you how to use simple, easy and effective action steps to make massive positive changes to your everyday life using the Law of Attraction. Create financial freedom, have a wonderful family life and great health by visiting www.loa-makeover.com

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