Wednesday, January 9, 2008

The Downside To Law Of Attraction

Law of Attraction states, simply, that you attract into your life whatever you focus upon. Period. Well, in our work, we're very focused on the deliberate use of Law of Attraction.

This is very powerful. For it means that any of us has the power to create whatever life we desire simply by applying Law of Attraction in a deliberate way. But there's a downside to Law of Attraction. And it's this ... you attract into your experience whatever it is you focus on.

By focusing your attention on the things you don't want - too much debt, too many bills, things that have gone wrong - guess what you are going to start appearing more and more in your life? You guessed it ... more of the same. And so there's a pretty scary downside.

By not being consciously aware of what you are focusing on, should your default position be on the things you don't want (which tends to be the case for the majority of people), then Law of Attraction gives you more of the same. This is why the deliberate use of Law of Attraction is so key. It is in this way you can control what you are attracting.

For most people this concept can be very difficult to grasp. You see, it's your thoughts that lead to the words you use, which lead you to feel a certain way, which compels you to a particular action, which of course sets the level of vibration you are sending to the universe. And what does Law of Attaction do? It matches your vibration.

So how do you mind your vibration? By being very mindful of and monitoring the language you are using in your conversations. And taking the time to correct your language whenever you catch yourself.

Of course you probably realize there's one specific conversation which requires a lot of attention. And that's the ongoing, never ending conversation you are having with yourself. You know what I'm referring to ... it's there right now even while you are reading this.

At any moment, there is a running conversation going on in your head, which is always commentating on what you are seeing, what you are doing, what you are thinking - all of it. When you are paying attention, it's easy to tune into that conversation. You may catch such phrases as "that's stupid", "that was dumb", "this isn't going to work", "I always fail", etc.

Well, in everyone of those examples, your self talk is entirely focused on what you don't want. And Law of Attraction doesn't know the difference between what you want and what you don't want. It only gives you what you are focused on.

Each and every time you say something like that, whether out loud to someone else or silently to yourself, you are committing self sabotage. So pay attention to the language you use religiously. Every single time catch yourself, stop, and rephrase what you said or thought.

It's easy to do. "So, what is it I do want?" Or how about, "that's interesting", or "this works for lots of people, it can work for me too", or even "I always succeed when I put my mind to it".

Begin monitoring your language and you will start to get better at refocusing on the things that you do want. And as you get better at that, the better your results will be as well. You will be avoiding the downside of Law of Attraction because you will be applying the Law of Attraction deliberately.


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by Warren Wojnowski

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